Tolle Lege: Ten Ways to Destroy the Imagination of Your Child

As of today there are ten reviews Anthony Esolen’s Ten Ways to Destroy the Imagination of Your Child on Amazon; seven are five star, after that there is a single four, three and one star review. I give you the single star review in its entirety.

I was very excited to read this book because I have 4 and 1 year old girls but unfortunately after spending an entire weekend trying to slog through it, I would not recommend this book to a common parent. The 5 star reviews I just read seem to be from other educators and other authors.

The way this author, who is obviously a very highly intelligent person, wrote the book in what I am calling a “high brow sarcasm” that was very difficult for me to read. The book could have been condensed down to a pamphlet stating the 10 points on what to do to save your child’s imagination, which could have been very helpful. But instead it was “if you want to ruin your child, make sure to not do this”, etc., etc. Then he would follow with story after story from the middle ages on down about how children of those ages were out and about exploring and learning. All of his examples and his writings were very difficult language to understand.

I don’t know what else to say. I was just very disappointed with the way it was written and I quit after half the book and won’t be picking it back up.

Ah, poor soul, he has no imagination. I imagine the reviewer didn’t like Lewis’ Screwtape Letters either, he would rather Lewis given a list of ten facts about demons and bid adieu to the devils correspondence. I for myself love satire, as did Elijah (I Kings 18:27), and I love this book.

For the first time in human history, most people are doing things that could never interest a child enough to make him want to tag along. That says less about the child than about us. If someone should say to us, “How would you like to spend most of your waking hours, five days a week, for the next four years, shut within four walls,” we should go mad, that is, if we had an imagination left.  It is only by repressing the imagination that many of us can stand our work.  Some years ago American feminists, in their own right no inconsiderable amazons against both children and the imagination, invented something called Take Your Daughter to Work Day. “See, Jill, this is the office where Mommy works. Here is where I sit for nine hours and talk to people I don’t love, about things that don’t genuinely interest me, so that I can make enough money to put you in day care.”

Imagine, then, never being able to look upon the sky.  That would drive us mad; and madness, unless it is of the sort that is predictable and spends money, would damage our economy. In Lady Windemere’s Fan by Oscar Wilde, Lord Darlington days, “We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.” That is bad. We want our children to look at the gutter, or, at the least, the movie theater or arcade across the street. What we want is to raise human beings that are not burdened with the yearning to look upward… The sky suggests the vastness of creation and the smallness of man’s ambition. It startles us out of our dreams of vanity, it silences our pride, it stills the lust to get and spend. It is more dangerous for the human soul to fall into that for a human body to fall out of.

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The Sweet Dropper: Query Your Soul

Therefore when we have the truths of religion discovered to us by the ministry, or by reading, &c., when they are conveyed to our knowledge by any sanctified means, let us propound these queries to our own souls, Are these things so or no? Yes. Do I believe them to be so or no? Yes. If I do believe them, then consider what the affection and inward disposition is; whether it be suitable to such things, and so work upon our hearts that our knowledge may be affective knowledge, a knowledge with a taste, that sinks even to the very affections, that pierceth through the whole soul; that the affections may yield, as well as the understanding; and let us never cease till there be a correspondence between the affection and the truth. Are they true? Believe them. Are they good? Embrace them. Let us never rest till our hearts embrace them, as our understanding conceives them. And let us think there is a defect in our apprehensions, that we call them into question, if the affections embrace them not; for alway, answerable to the weight and the depth of the apprehension of the truth, is the affection stirred up, and the will stirred up to embrace it. A man knows no more in religion than he loves and embraceth with the affections of his soul.  – Richard Sibbes, The Fountain Opened

Tolle Lege: Notes from the Tilt-A-Whirl

Readability:  1

Length: 201

Author:  N.D. Wilson

How does one describe Notes From The Tilt-A-Whirl? Theological mind candy? That just might work. Theology, imagination, fiction, philosophy, sarcasm, nature, science all collide here to form a wondrous Frankenstein. This book will grab your heart and mind in several ways at once pulling them several directions toward a single purpose. The big questions are answered well in a playful but serious way, more serious than those of austere academia often treat them with. 

If you enjoy the writings of C.S. Lewis or Donald Miller but long for something more theologically sound and substantive I commend N.D. Wilson to you. I can’t wait to get his children’s books – for me!

This world shaped by His words can never be tamed by mine.  But there is joy to be had in trying and falling short.

Death is that black stripe above my head on the measuring board.  When I’ve reached it, well, then I can go on the gnarly rides.

Skipping centuries to the modern Enlightenment, Descartes, the Frenchman, had a little trouble knowing that he existed.  But the he looked to the Little Engine That Could and learned that all he needed to do was to think that he was, and he would be.  Cogito, ergo sum.  I think, therefore I am.  Say it often enough, be willing to help out other trains in trouble, and you’ll be fine.  I think I am. I think I am.  Descartes cogitoed himself (and the rest of the world) into being.  Because of the mental ace he found in his mental sleeve, the modern world was built.  Its foundation? Reason can get you anywhere.

You are spoken. I am spoken. We stand on a spoken stage. The spinning kind. The round kind. The moist kind. The kind of stage with beetles and laughter and babies and dirt and snow and fresh-cut cedar.

You are made of cells. I am made of cells. My cells are built on molecules. My molecules make use of atoms. My atoms are mostly space, but the bits that aren’t are called quarks. My quarks are standing because they’re obedient. They’ve been told to by a Voice they cannot disobey.

For Berkeley and Buddhists and most breeds of Hindu, this world is illusory, sleight of hand. It seems material, the way the smoke plays with the mirrors, but it isn’t. The word is Vegas magic. Pick a card.

Kick a stone. There are no tricks here. There are no props, no prefabbed white rabbits. The magic is real, and I stand blinking on the stage because of it. I’m real. I’m heavy. I’m matter. Cut me and I’ll bleed. But I’m not made out of anything, and if the Magician, the poet, the Word, if the Singer were to stop His voice, I would simply cease to be.

In Virginia there lived a man named Roy Sullivan. He was struck by lightning seven times. I’m told the rough odds of this happening are 1.6 x 10 to the 25th (sixteen septillion). Which is like one man winning the lotto four times, though the luck is of a different stripe.

…After the fourth time Roy Sullivan was struck by lightning, he allegedly told a reporter that a higher power was trying to kill him.

That’s ridiculous. A higher power was not trying to kill him. That would have been easy. Every last one of us is bagged in the end. The more impressive trick is striking someone with lightning seven times and keeping them alive.

There is water in the world that once flew out of the mouths of guards and flecked the face of the Word Himself. There is iron that once tore at his back and iron that once coursed in His blood before it fell on the stones, left for small animals to feed upon in the night. Animals were born and spent a lifetime before being slaughtered, having their hides tanned and cut into strips, interwoven with stone and glass and lashing the skin off the One Poet’s back, baring ribs of calcium. There are proteins still, somewhere in this world, that were used in His beard before soldiers clutched, not knowing how close their fingers came to the Infinite, and tore hard.

But there is nothing now made from his flesh decomposed. That seed sprouted long ago, the firstborn, sprung from the womb of death on the first real day of Spring.

The Sweet Dropper: A Mystery to Ruin All Others

What is the reason that men are taken up with admiration of petty mysteries, of poor things ? Because their thoughts were never raised up to higher considerations. A wise man will wonder at nothing, because he knows greater things than those objects presented to him, he hath seen greater measures than those ; so it is with a wise Christian. Do you think he will stand wondering at great and rich men, at great places and honours, and such things? Indeed, he knows how to give that respect that is due. Alas ! he hath had greater matters in the eye of his soul, and hath what is great in this world to him, to whom the world itself is not great. What is great in this world to him to whom Christ is great; to whom heaven and the mysteries of religion are great? All things else are little to him to whom these things are great.  -Richard Sibbes in The Fountain Opened

Tolle Lege: Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is)

Readability: 1

Length:180

Author: Joshua Harris

There is no magic incantation within Joshua Harris’ book guaranteed to kill lust, and that is exactly why you need to read it. In Sex Is Not the Problem (Lust Is) Harris blends honesty, humility, truth, grace, and firmness as he deals with the monstrous sin of lust. In addition it is extremely practical, and most important Biblically faithful. After reading it I immediately wanted to give it away to all my students, nephews, and nieces.

In our losing battle against lust we’re often misguided in three key areas. We’ve had…

  • the wrong standard for holiness,
  • the wrong source of power to change,
  • and the wrong motive for fighting our sin.

Here’s the mistake I have often made.  I know that media contains a certain amount of sinful content that is dangerous. But instead of seeing how much I can avoid, I spend my energy trying to see how much I can handle. I’m like a person who figure out he can take half a poison pill every day without killing himself. It’s good that he’s not dying, but can it be healthy to take all those halves of poison pills.

Reasons I Will Not Play Video Games By Myself

A few months ago my nephew did an amazing thing. He wanted to get rid of his old video game system (a PS2) and instead of trading it all in to buy more games for his new system he decided he wanted to give it to Alex and Connor.

I remember having an Atari as a child, but rarely playing it. Then the NES came out, that is, the Nintendo Entertainment System. Hours would be invested in this little grey box.  Upgraded video systems would come out and I would buy them too, but I never got rid of any of them, I still played them all. I lack my nephew’s compassion.  At seminary I decided the throw them all in the dumpster. I am glad I did. So when my sis put my nephew’s proposal before me I was worried not only for my child’s soul by my own.

Initially I exercised great self-control. The PS2 wasn’t even turned on for a month. Then Alex and I played one day. Since them I have relapsed a handful of times, staying up after everyone is asleep for up to three hours. I have vowed in my own power and strength to stop a few times but eventually I lose out. Today I come freshly repentant, seeking to defeat what for me is sin with accountability (I have litteraly given Bethany permission to slap sense into me), prayer, scripture memorization, and the pursuit of greater joy.

Reasons I Will Not Play Video Games By Myself:

  1. We limit our children to thirty minutes of media a day, with an occasional exception on the weekends or special occasions.  One reason among many that we do this is to teach them self-control.  I want to end my hypocrisy and practice what I preach.
  2. It numbs me to the realness of real life. A virtual world cannot make you shiver at the coldness of snow, twist your tongue at the sour juice of a lime, tickle your ears like rain on a tin roof, arouse your appetite like the smell of snicker doodles, or entice your eyes like the sight of your wife. Why spend time living there, when there is such magic here?  Reality trumps virtual reality.
  3. It is wasted time.  No real treasure is gained, no real evil defeated, no lasting joy gained, no beneficial knowledge obtained.
  4. I am weak. I become too easily obsessed.  A video game can consume my thoughts and therefore my heart. In short I worship video games.  I turn them into an idol to which I sacrifice time to gain only illusory power, glory, and treasure.
  5. When I think of what it means to be a man, spending hours playing a game by myself never enters my mind. I don’t want to be the guy who escapes to be a hero, seek adventure, capture a beauty, and fight a battle in a fake world because I am too lame and lazy to live a life of eternal significance.  When I think of those men whom I regard as men, my heroes, I cannot picture them playing a video game by themselves. They may have had a hobby or sought occasional recreation, but it was grounded in reality. They built ships inside bottles, rode stallions, created art, or built something with dirty calloused hands.
  6. I cannot imagine appearing before the God of all glory and giving account for such large blocks of time by saying, “But look at what I accomplished, the playoffs I won, the bosses I defeated, the campaigns I completed, the lives I saved…”
  7. I was made to glorify God and enjoy Him forever. For me video games played by myself contribute nothing toward this goal.  I don’t exercise self-discipline to choke joy, but because deeper joy is being choked.  I want to stop playing video games by myself because I want greater joy. I am making no sacrifice.

I know of no other way to triumph over sin long-term than to gain a distaste for it because of a superior satisfaction in God.  – John Piper

And he said to all, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it.”  – Luke 9:23-24 23

A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.  – Proverbs 25:28

Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which comes through faith in Christ, the righteousness from God that depends on faith— that I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead.  – Philippians 3:8-11

Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. – Psalm 73:25-26

Tolle Lege: D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones

Readability:  2

Length: Volume One – 377, Volume Two – 777

Author:  Iain Murray

I don’t remember enjoying Iain Murray’s two volume biography of D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones when I first read it in 2007 as much as I did this time. I certainly liked it before, but now it is among my favorite biographies.  The books are massive, but the journey is worth it, especially if you are a pastor.

Here is a man whose ministry was anointed by God, whom God is still using today through his writings to minister to the church. He is a man, he has faults (part of the greatness of this biography is that it doesn’t cover them up), but he is a man of God, there is much we can learn from him. As I read I was moved, encouraged, convicted, humbled, and uplifted in worship.

Lloyd-Jones was a doctor, but not of theology, he was a doctor of medicine. He gave up a promising career in medicine to enter the ministry, but if you were to ask him he never made a sacrifice. Originally he returned to his Welsh homeland to minister in an obscure little church. This seems to have been his only ambition.  God blessed his ministry mightily there and his influence began to spread.  Just before the Second World War he joined G. Campbell Morgan as co-pastor of Westminster Chapel. In many ways he would stand alone during his thirty year ministry there, but he would also influence and be loved by many.

I don’t really feel as if I have to sell this biography too much. If you have read something by him I expect you will want to. If you have not I encourage you to take up Spiritual Depression, or Preaching and Preachers. After that I am certain you will want to know the man behind the books.

The Sweet Dropper: My Dungeon Made His Temple

What a mercy is this, that he that hath the heaven of heavens to dwell in will make a dungeon to be a temple, a prison to be a paradise, yea, an hell to be an heaven. Next to the love of Christ in taking our nature and dwelling in it, we may wonder at the love of the Holy Ghost, that will take up his residence in such defiled souls.  Richard Sibbes, A Fountain Sealed

The Sweet Dropper: Three Degrees of Victory

To make this clearer, and help us in our trial, we must know that there are three degrees of victory: first, when we resist though we are foiled; second, when grace gets the better, though with conflict; and third, when all corruption is perfectly subdued. When we have strength only to resist, we may know Christ’s government in us will be victorious, because what is said of the devil is true of all our spiritual enemies, `Resist the devil, and he will flee from you’ (James 4:7); because `Greater is he that is in you’, who takes the part of his own grace, `than he that is in the world’ (1 John 4:4). And if we may hope for victory from bare resistance, what may we not hope for when the Spirit has gained the upper hand?  – Richard Sibbes, The Bruised Reed

The Sweet Dropper: Humiliation and Elevation

The lower Christ comes down to us, the higher let us lift him up in our hearts; so will all those do that have ever found the experience of Christ’s work in their heart.  – Richard Sibbes in The Bruised Reed