Psalm 63:1 (ESV)
O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you;
my soul thirsts for you;
my flesh faints for you,
as in a dry and weary land where there is no water.
—Psalm 63:1

“My God”—unless you can say that, you will not understand the longing David speaks of here. “O God, you are my God.” Derek Kidner comments “The simplicity and boldness of Thou art my God is the secret of all that follows.” “Thou art my God” is the key, that unlocks the treasures of this psalm.
“The longing of these verses” Kidner tells us, “is not the groping of a stranger, feeling his way towards God, but the eagerness of a friend, almost of a lover, to be in touch with the one he holds dear.” “O God, you are my God; earnestly I seek you.” If you never have this longing, this thirst, then consider that the reason may be that you cannot truly say, “my God.” Your may be in a pickle. You may want out. But you are seeking a stranger. You do not really thirst for God. You thirst, and you’re asking God to be your waiter. God is not your water. He is your waiter.
This seeking is not the seeking of a stranger. This is not the seeking of sinful man for God. Scripture declares, “no one seeks for God” (Romans 3:11). Man may seek religion and spirituality, but, Paul explains, such seeking is a way of running from God. We suppress the truth we know about God and create gods in our own image (Romans 1:15–23). Man does not seek after God, yet David does. He “earnestly” seeks after God. Why is it that David seeks? Why do any seek?
Before any say, “my God,” God says, “my people.” This simple language goes back to the Abrahamic covenant and God’s promise to be God to Abraham and his offspring. In faithfulness to this covenant, God declared to Israel through Moses, “I will redeem you with an outstretched arm and with great acts of judgment. I will take you to be my people, and I will be your God, and you shall know that I am the LORD your God” (Exodus 6:6–7). God initiates. “I will take you to be my people, and I will be your God, and you shall know that I am the LORD your God.” Before any seek God, God seeks them. “We love because he first loved us (1 John 4:9).” This is what Jesus meant when He said, “I have other sheep that are not of this fold. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice” (John 10:16). The children of God seek because the Father has sought them.
God reveals Himself in Christ by the Spirit through the Word. God shines in their “hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ” (2 Corinthians 4:6). That seeing gives us a new nature with a new appetite. It creates a soul that having tasted that the Lord is good, thirsts and hungers for Him.
“The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and covered up. Then in his joy he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field. Again, the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant in search of fine pearls, who, on finding one pearl of great value, went and sold all that he had and bought it” (Matthew 13:44–46).
That kind of seeking is the result of having been sought and found. The seeking of this psalm assumes all of this. The seeking of this psalm is not one for discovery, but from delight. Yet, it is a desperate seeking. This is the kind of thirst that results from having tasted and thus having been ruined for anything else.








