Genesis 2:18-25 & Don’t Play – Not Even With The Nerf Gun

Dating without any reference to marriage is as dangerous as shooting a gun without any reference to a target.

Genesis 2:18-25 gives us the context for intimacy between a man and a woman, it is marriage.  Do not decontextualize the intimacy of marriage and place it in dating.  Courtship should correspond to marriage the way a Nerf gun corresponds to a handgun, there will be similarities, but they are drastically different. 

Please don’t carry the analogy too far though.  Dating may be the Nerf gun, but it is still serious.  Be faithful with the lesser Nerf gun of dating, and you will be prepared to be faithful with the real gun of holy matrimony.  Date with purpose, not for leisure.  A marriage that expounds the mystery of Christ and His Church is the target – AIM!

Genesis 2:4-17 & The Divine DTR

God has Defined The Relationship. 

I think most people in the west make two deadly assumptions concerning their relationship with God.

1)    It exists and it is good.  They have never had to do anything to gain it, but they most assuredly have it.  They are not super serious about the relationship from their side, but they are convinced the Divine is intensely serious about them.  Here God is a Cosmic Care Bear, a Santa Clause on steroids, and a Mr. Rodgers who is everybody’s neighbor.

 

2)   They deny such a relationship exists altogether.  They may or may not be adamant about this.  Most likely this exists in a soft form of apathy.  Whether or not there is such a relationship to be had they just don’t care.

With the rise of an ethereal spirituality in the US I think most people place make the former assumption.  They are like the 5 year old whose girlfriend is their kindergarten teacher, the relationship isn’t really real.  They “talk to God” kind of like the 30 year old guy who lives in grandma’s garage “talks to girls” online while wearing Star Wars pajamas – the relationship ain’t really real.

We only relate to God within the structures of covenant.  Covenant relationships are serious, and this is the most serious relationship of all.  Now it is true that all mankind does relate to God as their creator, and God has a posture to general benevolence toward all of mankind, but man as a whole is in violation of covenant, this covenant (Hosea 6:7).  The favor and blessing of God are absent.  We are excommunicants of the covenant, we are now a dying death.  Relationship with God is so serious that the only basis for it is perfection. 

You are saved by works.  Covenants are unchangeable.  They may be superseded, this one never was.  This covenant was not annulled, it was fulfilled.  Again, you are saved by works, the catch is that they are not your own.  Every time you read the gospels, think to yourself as you see the perfect living of Christ, “that is my righteousness by faith”.  Every time you read the gospels, think to yourself as you see cursed death of Christ, “that is my curse”.

You are either in Adam or in Christ.  You relate to God in one of these two ways.  God has defined the relationship.

Genesis 1:2-2:3 & Imago Dei

From my limited study of culture in America I will venture to say that generation gaps are a recent development.  Just a matter of decades ago the radical preference differences between teen and parent would not be so obvious.  To be in anyway like your parents as a teen is now often uber-uncool. 

Our society which places stress on the individual adds to this.  You must find out who you are, you own style, your own way.  Customize you life.  Too often this results in rebellion.  You want to run from anything that would conform you to the mold of you parents.  Take heed, how you respond to this authority tells of your attitude toward the ultimate authority that placed you under such dorky parents.

It is a good thing to have good parents.  God designed the parent child relationship, it is good.  It is good to imitate their faith and look like them as they look like Christ.

Imago Dei , the image of God – the implications of this doctrine are so intense.  The more I reflect on it the more I am left in awe.  In the original rebellion man was not content with being made in the image of God, he wanted to be God!  He rebelled against his Creator.  He wanted to customize his image, upgrade.  Unfortunately like many rebellious fashion attempts of teens today, this was a tragic downgrade.  Identity was not found it was lost.  We devolved.

Jesus comes to restore the imago Dei.  In fact he takes us beyond mere restoration.  After our final glorification we will be in a better position than Adam.  When vile sinners who are exposed graciously to the glory of God break in contrition, their identity is not lost, rather they begin to find it.  In repentance and faith our humble humanity is restored.  And our humble humanity is glorious.  What is man that you are so mindful of Him?

Genesis 1:1 & One Down, One-Thousand-Five-Hundred-Thirty-Two to Go

Last night we began a trek, an epic trek.  We took one step, just one step of 1533 toward our desired destination.  It was just one step, but what a step it was.  Oh the glories of this one verse!  God forgive me for all the times I have read or contemplated this verse flippantly.  Forgive me for playing with nitroglycerin as if it were glass of ice water.

One of my favorite books I read in preparation for this trek was Allen Ross’s Creation and Blessing.  Ross said, “If creation around us displays the glory of God (Ps. 19), how much more the account of that creation.”  In this sentence, just this one sentence, I learn that God is incomparably majestic and powerful.  He is transcendent.  He alone is Creator, all else is creature or creation.  He is eternal, unbound by time.  He is wise and creative.  A man is smart if he can design a clock, God set the stars, burning balls of gas in motion.  If man messes up I am five minutes late.  If God messes up we all die.  He never messes up, we do. 

This first sentence of the Bible is more amazing than the stars.  Oh, see it that way, God grant us to see it that way!  Alpha Centauri does not shine as brightly as this verse of scripture.  And this is the most glorious thing, this transcendent, glorious King of the cosmos has become immanent as I read this very sentence and His Holy Spirit illumines it.  Our God is a talking God.  He talks to us.

Only 1532 glorious more steps to take as we learn more and more of this great covenant God and our relation to Him.  God bless these steps, may we like the patriarchs be those who “walk with God”.

Hebrews 13:20-25 & A Gracious Storm

Monday - Friday

If you haven’t been in Tulsa the weekly forecast for the past two weeks is illustrated by the single picture above.  I would love to visit Seattle and visit Mars Hill Church.  I was curious about the weather as well, now I think I know what it’s like.  When I walked out yesterday afternoon I was struck by something alien.  What is this strange warmth tickling my skin?   What are these colors?  Why is quiet peace after the storm somehow more quite than the peace that preceded it?  How is it that the bird’s songs seem sweeter?  Do they sense the same things I do?

Hebrews is a category five hurricane for your soul.  As it sweeps by it devastates the landscape.  False hopes, strengths, and idols are decimated.  False professors flee before it.  Only those left tethered to the one true Anchor are left, and they are better for it.

I have found some of the deepest most abiding comfort in this precious book.  It is true comfort.  It is not built on the illusory; it is anchored in the deepest of realities, God Himself.  I am so glad that peace does not come quickly or easily in this book.  I am thankful for the storm and all it brought down.  The storm was a mercy.

The same storm that wrecked my false securities also stirred the seas of God’s grace and peace and now they come crashing thunderously upon me.  They are deep waves, mighty waves, surging waves.  The Son is brighter now.  Songs of praise spring forth spontaneously.  The peace is deafening.  Grace is crashing in.

Hebrews 13:17-19 & Treating Authority Like Bad Socks

When some things are abused you throw them away. Toys and socks work that way. I am in dire need of some new socks right now.  A couple of pairs have holes in the heel and many of them have holes which my long toe (my long toe is not my big toe) loves to play peek-a-boo out of.  My big toenail grows radically more than my other toe nails.  Apparently I don’t clip it often enough and then cuts though my socks? My toenail neglect is sock abuse.

Anyway, just because socks are abused you don’t find people running around saying that socks are inherently evil or faulty. You may throw a pair of socks away, but not socks altogether. Authority can be, and is often abused, but that is no reason to throw it out. In our society sex is equally abused, why aren’t we so passionate to ban sex?  Toys are abused by children, should we ban toys?

God gives leaders to his church. All their authority is a derived authority, not intrinsic to themselves. Obey and submit to them for your own souls.  Find elders who are faithful to God’s Word and then be faithful to those elders. Put yourself in a position where your relationship to your elder will be a reflection of your relationship to God.

If you have authority issues with your elder most of the time I would advise one of two actions:

  1. Repent.  If you believe your elder is faithful to the Word of God, your issues with him are issues with God.
  2. Move.  If your elder is not faithful to God’s word find one who is and for the benefit of your soul and his joy in ministry submit to him in the Lord.

Hebrews 13:7-16 & Vintage vs. Novel

Vintage does not mean dead, novel does.  Coca-Cola is classic, it is vintage; that is it is old, but has enduring value.  It has not aged.  Crystal Pepsi was novel and it died.  Novel often means faddish.

Jesus is vintage.  He is ancient, eternal, and immutable.  He is the same yesterday, today, and forever.  This does not limit our exploration of the divine; rather it speaks to the infiniteness of that which is explored.  What must the magnitude of Jesus’ glory be if he is immutable, yet never monotonous or boring?

The dead teachers of the past heralded this Jesus (Hebrews 13:7).  In contrast the false teachers so perverted and distorted Him that their teaching was strange, and diverse (Hebrews 13:9).

The vintage Jesus will live on and prevail, for He is the living one.  The pseudo-novel Jesus will die, for He does not exist.

Spiritually, regarding Jesus, I hope to see you all driving a red ’52 Chevy rather than a modern hybrid with GPS, DVD player, and seat warmers.  Don’t fall prey to the new – it is faddish, it will die, and you will find the quality exceptionally less.

Hebrews 13:1-6 & Orthodoxy to Orthopraxy

Don’t divorce the ethics of Hebrews 13:1-6 from the theology that has preceded it.  Orthodoxy fuels orthopraxy.  Orthopraxy flows from orthodoxy.  If my actions are not done in faith, they are sin (Romans 14:23).  Belief in the name of God’s Son Jesus Christ and love for our brother come to us as a singular command (1 John 3:23).  I can gauge if I truly get doctrine by looking for the practical fruit of love for my brothers and hospitality toward strangers.  I can know if I have the proper motivations in loving my fellow man by seeking out the theological underpinnings that motivate it.

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I am extremely romantic one night.  I have sent her away for a spa treatment all day (she loves the spa).  Surprisingly I pick her up at the spa with a gift she has been hinting at (no flowers, she hates it when I buy flowers).  I take her to her favorite restaurant, she can tell all my attention is on her, I have eyes for no other, no one else exists.  We go for a walk in the park afterwards.  Everything is perfect… I am saying the most poetic of compliments.  I am sincere, I am in love, yet she is repulsed.  Whenever I begin talk of her naturally curly hair (it’s straight), and her blue eyes (they are brown) the evening changes its hue.  All my right doing, however sincere, has been undone by wrong knowing.  When I call my precious Bethany by a foreign name, the name of an ex, all is lost.  Light has turned to darkness.

Orthopraxy is essential.  So is the orthodoxy it must flow from (Hebrews 11:6).

What comes into our minds when we think about God is the most important thing about us.  – A.W. Tozer

Hebrews 12:18-29 & …Huh?

You reach for the porcelain collectible for the third time, sure you’ve been warned, but you have called her bluff up to this point.  She is speaking, telling you not to, but you know she hasn’t quite reached that tone yet.  You know that tone that says a beating is imminent.

Have we grown up any?  Do we respond to the gospel with a “…huh?”  Not an inquisitive huh, but a non-interested huh.

In our text we are told that we must listen, because God will speak.  The speaking that God is doing now is different from the speaking that He will do then.  If you are privileged to hear the gospel of Jesus, the revelation of the Son, by the Son (Hebrews 1:1-3), God is speaking to you.  It is the greatest good news in the world; He is speaking to you kindly.  His speaking then, when all is shaken will be different. 

Do not listen to the repeated offers of the gospel, in which God as it were lays the key to His heavenly city before you, do not listen to them in the same way you listen to your mother’s threats.  To respond casually or flippantly to this gospel, is to call more than Mt. Sinai down upon your head.  Every time the gospel is preached you are either softened or hardened.  As the Puritans said, “the same sun that melts the ice hardens the clay.”  Perhaps God’s judgment upon you for a habitual pattern of shirking the gospel is to expose you to more of it, such that your quilt is increased.  Ease and comfort in sin is the scariest state to find oneself in.  We see this kind of terrifying judgment in Romans 1:18-32.

Every time God’s word is preached the gospel should be preached.  Therefore every time God’s word is preached there should be a serious and solemn examination of our hearts.  Are we listening?  Remember the Pharisees heard and taught the Scriptures every Sabbath, yet they were completely ignorant of Jesus.

Jesus did not mute the holiness and righteousness of God that speaks in wrath against our sin.  No rather God’s testimony against sin was amplified as Jesus hung on the cross in our stead.  If you stand outside of Christ this wrath burns against you still.  If you spurn the blood of Jesus, it burns against you more (Hebrews 2:1-4; 10:28-29)

As wise old Uncle Ben said to Peter, “with great power comes great responsibility”.  The gospel is the power of God unto salvation.  With greater revelation, greater glory, greater power comes greater responsibility on our part.

“Today if you hear his voice, do not harden your hearts as in the rebellion.”

“For our God is a consuming fire.”

Hebrews 12:3-17 & A Prayer

Father,

            Holy and loving,

 

Grant us in our consideration of your courageous Son,

            Sustaining grace to realize that the hostile hand of sinners,

            Is also Your helpful hand of discipline.

 

May we not seek the false remedy of alleviating our suffering by attenuating Your sovereignty.

            May we agonize, struggle, and bleed to keep this faith.

            May Your words come to our minds and hearts as light in dark times.

                        Grant us a sanctified memory, so that we may not forget Your words.

 

Teach us to esteem, value, even treasure Your discipline as it cries out to us that we are:

            Loved,

            Received,

            Delighted in,

            Not a bastard.

 

May we know that Your discipline does not come to us as a penalty, but for our purity.

            We are corrected,

            We are prevented,

            And we are educated,

            But the wrath and penalty due for our sins has been born, for hell hung on the cross in our stead.

 

May we be infected with a childlike awe to look just like our Daddy,

            And may that desire make the bitter medicine of discipline sweet to our souls,

            The unpleasant bud of pain, tolerated in hopes of the beautiful bloom of:

                        Your holiness,

                        And the peaceful fruit of righteousness

 

May the truth of Your loving, fatherly, perfect discipline propel us to run, strive, and encourage one another.

            We move in hope, only because we know You are moving.

 

Father,

            Holy and loving,

 

We plead this with earnest tears, for:

            The consequences are so severe if we respond with bitterness to your loving discipline.

            Our ecstasy is the vision of You, in all Your glory.

            Without holiness we will not see this, it is the stamp of our sonship.

            God put this stamp on our souls.

 

May we not like Esau count corn flakes more than the Christ of the Cross and all He purchased for us.

 

In the name of Your perfect Son, Jesus, 

            I, Your lesser son, adopted and unworthy, pray, amen.